The “It” Factor Is Not Just for Celebrities, It’s a Skill You Can Learn

You’ve probably been told that the women who stand out have something you don’t. That “It” factor. Charisma. Presence. Magnetism.

But the truth is — it’s not reserved for celebrities or extroverts.
It’s not about being louder, flashier, or more polished.

It comes down to inner mastery of the mind, body, and nervous system.

It’s not what you say. It’s not even what you do.
It’s who you’re being — and how safe you feel being seen.

Why You're Going Unnoticed At Work (Even If You're Brilliant)

From birth, your nervous system is shaped by your experiences.
If you were ever:

• Bullied for being different

• Praised for being quiet or “easy”

• Told to tone it down, to blend in, or not take up too much space...

Especially during your formative years (ages 0–7), your body registered visibility as unsafe.

To protect you, it created unconscious patterns — holding you back from judgment, criticism, and rejection.
Not because you're weak, but because your body believes it's protecting you from pain.

What Happens Next

You might:

• Hold back in meetings

• Look down when speaking

• Dim your ideas or presence without realising it

• Hold hesitation in your voice

• Have micro expressions and subtle body language that cause people to not pay attention

Even if you're sharing something brilliant — people won't register it, because your energy is sending mixed signals.

This is how unconscious protection becomes energetic repelling.
And it’s why less experienced, less talented people often rise — while you wait, work, and wonder why you're still unseen.

The Shift

In the quantum field, everything is energy.
Your emotions are energy in motion — and when they stay trapped in your body, they shape your presence.

The “It” factor isn’t just confidence.
It’s nervous system safety.
It’s clearing the emotional blocks that tell your body it’s dangerous to be visible.

You can rewire the part of you that holds back — and finally stand out effortlessly.
So you command the room.
Get the promotion.
And get recognised for the years of work you’ve already put in.

I’ll never forget the story of the day Marilyn Monroe was walking through New York. She turned to a photographer and asked, “Do you want to see her?” A moment later, she changed something described as a “switch” — and within seconds, the same people who had just walked past her unnoticed were stopping, staring, and surrounding her. She didn’t change her outfit. She didn’t say a word.
She changed her energy.

That’s the “It” factor. Not performance — but permission. Not noise — but nervous system safety. Not doing more — but being seen without fear. And it’s a skill.

And this is exactly what you’ll learn inside Becoming Magnetic™.
To turn your inner switch on.
To walk into a room and be felt.
To get recognised, respected, and remembered — without changing who you are.